#81 GHOST MECH FIXED: release the death latch + stop the duplicate VehicleDead

Two defects that were masking each other, both now fixed and benched.

1) THE LATCH NEVER RELEASED ON FAILURE.  The binary's FUN_004c012c tail is
   Post(...) ; *(this+0x290)=0 ; *(this+0x258)=0   (part_013.c:10519-10523).
   We had the Post and the suppressConsole and were missing the middle
   instruction, so deathPending cleared only on SUCCESS paths.  One failed
   respawn latched the pilot for the whole mission: every later death hit the
   dedup and was SWALLOWED, so the cycle could never restart -- a transient
   hiccup became a PERMANENT ghost (dead, un-Reset, still driveable, a burning
   wreck on every peer that sinks after ~18s and can never be drawn again).
   Binary evidence: +0x290 is written in exactly THREE places in all of
   BTL4OPT.EXE (0x0b75fb, 0x0bffe3, 0x0c0a05) and all three store a ZEROED
   register; there is no write of 1 -- or any non-zero, in any instruction form
   -- anywhere.  The dedup gate itself IS authentic (@004c05c4 does
   mov edx,[ebx+0x290]; test edx,edx; jne ret), so it is kept.

2) VehicleDeadMessage WAS DISPATCHED TWICE PER DEATH.  BTPostKillScore
   (btplayer.cpp:2263) sent a second one "to credit a death", but that message
   is the RESPAWN-CYCLE TRIGGER, not a scoreboard increment, and the tally is
   already credited by the handler's ++deathTally (:538).  Both fire inside the
   same death transition (BTPostKillScore at mech4.cpp:2006, the hardened
   authentic notify at :2110), so they were always paired.  Removed; the kill
   credit above it is untouched (it correctly uses a ScoreMessage).

THEY HID EACH OTHER: the duplicate made the latch look necessary, and the latch
made the duplicate invisible.  Every "death ... SWALLOWED" warning in the field
logs was just the latch deduping our own duplicate -- 8 of 8 deaths, a 100% base
rate, which is exactly why it correlated with nothing when tested.  Fixing
either alone makes things visibly worse (the first bench of fix 1 alone produced
a DOUBLE cycle: deathCount double-incremented, cycle 1's re-post gone stale and
tripping the drop-zone MISMATCH).  That is why earlier passes at #57/#55 kept
adding clear-sites instead of finding the root; the binary broke the tie.

VERIFIED
  solo: 17 consecutive death/respawn cycles, every one START->RESET,
        0 swallowed / 0 mismatch / 0 crash.  Pre-fix this strands permanently
        after cycle 1.
  MP  : two nodes over a real network path with cross-machine drop-zone replies
        (each node's request is answered by the OTHER machine) -- A 11 cycles,
        B 12, 0 swallowed / 0 mismatch / 0 discarded / 0 crash.
  harness: BT_SELF_DAMAGE_REPEAT=1 re-arms the self-damage bench after respawn
        so multiple cycles can be driven (a one-death harness can never
        exercise this fix).  scratchpad/night6/mp_ghost.sh.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

scratchpad/night6/mp_ghost.sh

@@ -14,11 +14,11 @@ sed 's/^experience=expert/experience=novice/' MP.EGG > MPG.EGG
 
 # B first (listener), then A -- same order as the working mp_skate.sh
 BT_LOG=mp_b.log BT_AFFINITY=0x2 BT_MP_LOG=1 BT_SCORE_LOG=1 BT_DEATH_LOG=1 \
-  BT_SELF_DAMAGE=60 BT_SELF_DAMAGE_DELAY=40 \
+  BT_SELF_DAMAGE=60 BT_SELF_DAMAGE_DELAY=40 BT_SELF_DAMAGE_REPEAT=1 \
   ../build/Release/btl4.exe -egg MPG.EGG -net 1601 &
 sleep 2
 BT_LOG=mp_a.log BT_AFFINITY=0x1 BT_MP_LOG=1 BT_SCORE_LOG=1 BT_DEATH_LOG=1 \
-  BT_SELF_DAMAGE=60 BT_SELF_DAMAGE_DELAY=55 \
+  BT_SELF_DAMAGE=60 BT_SELF_DAMAGE_DELAY=55 BT_SELF_DAMAGE_REPEAT=1 \
   ../build/Release/btl4.exe -egg MPG.EGG -net 1501 &
 sleep 4
 python ../tools/btconsole.py MPG.EGG 127.0.0.1:1501 127.0.0.1:1601 &